Unlike many cheaters, the numbers don't lie. Infidelity is common. Very common, in fact. Leading a long-term sexual double life, making a one-off extramarital slip or having a passionate crush: It often starts out harmlessly. It's exciting and fun, but usually ends badly and sadly. 

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Cheating generally causes such heartbreaking pain and deep misery, it leaves couples often clueless as to how the can deal with it constructively. An affair always causes an emotional rollercoaster. Both partners usually deal with it very differently. The unfaithful cheater usually wants to forget the incident as quickly as possible and not talk about it anymore, while the cheatee wants to talk about it endlessly, in detail and at length. The cheater has to endure all the uncontrolled fits of tears and anger, their endless accusations and questions and their need to control things, while there generally will be little space or understanding for the potential doubts, persistent crush and heartbreak of the cheater. 

 

The art of dealing with infidelity is -however difficult- to work through all the emotions: the anger, the fear of abandonment, the associated insecurity and gnawing jealousy, but certainly also any shame, regret, guilt and heartbreak. It is vital for both partners to create space for all these emotions. This speeds up the processing and increases the chance of recovery. It increases intimacy, it strengthens the love relationship, it repairs -in the long run- the breach of trust and in this way prevents repetition or relapse. You may even come out stronger as a couple.! Honestly..!

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Blanca has already guided hundreds of couples in processing infidelity. In her exclusive 'Cheat Retreats' she offers a safe, relaxed environment to start the conversation together, process all emotions and restore the damaged trust. A few days away from the daily hustle and bustle to get closer to each other again.

 

All exclusive love retreats can be fully tailored to your own wishes and needs. For example, you can stay in a chic 5-star hotel or (romantically) sleep a few nights in a tent on a campsite. You can opt for intensive guidance or book just one therapy session of two hours per day. You can come for a day or stay a whole week. In the weekend or during the week. Whatever you want. In good consultation, everything is possible. At the magical Lake Como, the idyllic Lake Maggiore or the unsurpassed Lake Varese.

 

Either way. An exclusive Cheat Retreat is the key to recovery. Choose the [ light ], [ delight ] or [ deluxe ] option ...